The Nervous System and Premature Ejaculation

On June 27, 2011, in Causes, by admin

The nervous system plays a huge role in how long a man lasts. In this article we’re going to discuss how it corresponds to the length of time a man lasts last before ejaculating. A highly responsive nervous system is usually what’s most directly responsible for premature ejaculation.

The nervous system is divided into two sub-systems, the central and peripheral. The central nervous system consists of the brain and spinal cord. The peripheral nervous system ties into the brain and spinal cord, but reaches out to everything else as well (limbs, organs, etc). The purpose of the nervous system is to interpret information/sensations from one’s surroundings (physical, mental, and visual), which then tells the body how to react. This is done by generating and transmitting electrical impulses to and from the two systems. The nervous system is basically the control center that tells your body what to do and how to react to a specific situation.

The peripheral system can also be divided into sub-systems. Beneath the peripheral are the somatic and autonomic nervous systems.

Then, beneath the autonomic nervous system are the parasympathetic and sympathetic nervous systems.

Still with me?

These are the two systems we’re going to focus on, as they are directly related to erection, arousal, and ejaculation.

First lets talk about the sympathetic system. This system isn’t simply on or off. It has different levels, and the intensity of the level is based on the intensity of the stress. For a negative action/stress, it would peak when faced with life-threatening danger. In the case of a positive action/stress, it would peak during ejaculation and orgasm.

Think of the sympathetic system as something that ‘uses energy’. Going too far into the sympathetic system is what causes ejaculation.

Think of the parasympathetic system as something that ‘conserves energy’. Keeping yourself in a parasympathetic state will prevent ejaculation, even if you have a full erection.

The parasympathetic system is basically the opposite of the sympathetic. While the sympathetic is known for ‘fight or flight’, the parasympathetic is known for ‘rest and digest’. Relaxation is probably the best word to describe this system. The parasympathetic system kicks into gear when the mind is clear and relaxed, and when the body isn’t facing a stressful situation.

In the Ejaculation Trainer there is a lot more detail about these two systems and how you can manipulate them to last as long as you want. Once you know how to do this it becomes much easier to prevent premature ejaculation.

 

If overall well being and better health weren’t enough motivation to get you to exercise, how about overcoming your premature ejaculation and being a better lover? Obviously exercise will help you look and feel better, giving a major boost to your confidence, but the benefits of exercise don’t stop there. Working some sort of exercise into your regular schedule can lead to surprising results in bed.

All of the overall health benefits of exercise can be translated into sexual benefits as well. There have actually been studies that have made a connection between physical inactivity with a lack of ejaculation control. Men who had low levels of physical activities were shown to have less control over their ejaculation and arousal during sex, as well as having less fulfilling sexual experiences. It’s easy to figure out the benefits of cardio on your sex life. It will make your heart stronger, increase you lung capacity, and allow you to keep going longer. Muscular strength actually plays a large part in sex, especially when you venture out from the missionary and cowgirl positions. Flexibility is also useful for the same reason.

Mentally, it’s been shown that increased physical activity will make you happier and calmer as well as increase your sexual desire. When exercising regularly, you will begin to feel better about your body. Being naked in front of your partner can be stressful if you don’t feel good about your body, which increases your stress levels during intercourse, leading to premature ejaculation and a poor performance. Feeling good about your body alleviates that stress, making ejaculation control much easier.

During exercise, levels of serotonin naturally increase. On the other hand, low levels of this hormone have been linked to premature ejaculation. Not only do levels of serotonin naturally increase during exercise, but they don’t go back down afterwards, they stay at an increased level for a substantial period of time. Higher levels of serotonin create a feeling of calmness in your body, and this calm feeling will follow you into the bedroom. Part of the reason for premature ejaculation is the inability to control your arousal, causing you to climax quickly. If you are able to calm your emotions during sex, you will be able to last longer. Understandably, many men who suffer from PE also begin to succumb to depression. Exercise will increase levels of feel-good chemicals like serotonin, which will help lessen depression.

It would also be good to mention at this point that sex is a great way to burn calories. As you begin to get a handle on your premature ejaculation, you will be able to last longer and longer. This will make you healthier, allowing you to last even longer and make intercourse even more enjoyable. Staying active will also help you as you age. Seniors who are physically active have actually reported having the same amount of sex, as well as the same levels of sexual pleasure, as people decades younger than them.

Exercise can play a role in helping with premature ejaculation, but to totally combat the problem it will require quite a bit more. We recommend the Ejaculation Trainer, which is the leading solution available for premature ejaculation. Everything you could possibly know about premature ejaculation and how to overcome it is covered there in great detail.

Preventing Premature Ejaculation

On June 13, 2011, in Treatments, by admin

Premature ejaculation is actually one of the most common sexual complaints among men and couples. Most men will experience premature ejaculation at some point or another in their lives. For some men it’s just a passing thing that goes away as quick as it came, for others it’s a story that never ends. There are ways to prevent premature ejaculation, and to keep it from getting worse.

Having open communication with your partner has been shown to help alleviate a lot of the stress associated with premature ejaculation, as well as allow a man to deal with the problem as soon as it arises. There is a lot of pressure on men to perform and satisfy their partner, so when they feel they are unable to do this they become stressed and worried, which can make the symptoms even worse. When a couple is able to talk about their sexual relationship, it will take a lot of the pressure and bring a couple closer together while working to resolve the problem. Men will last longer by simply talking about the issue and relieving the stress. This is due to the fact that less stress equals more serotonin (which delays ejaculation), and also due to the fact that when a man isn’t stressed and worried about performing, he will be more relaxed and in control of his ejaculation.

There are also techniques that can be done regardless of relationship status. Many premature ejaculation manuals go over the various techniques that can be done that will allow a man to be in control and prevent premature ejaculation. They can be practiced alone or with a partner. There are also various mental techniques that can be used during masturbation or intercourse. Most men find that by learning to control their mental stimulation (emotions, arousal, excitement, etc), they become much better at controlling themselves and preventing premature ejaculation.

Dealing with premature ejaculation as quickly as possible will help to prevent the problem from getting any worse. It might be hard to talk about, but remember that the majority of men find a way to relieve their premature ejaculation and you can too. It just takes a little dedication and effort on your part.

The Ejaculation Trainer is by far the most popular solution for naturally preventing premature ejaculation and increasing stamina. It covers prevention techniques, quick fix techniques, and how to develop permanent control so that premature ejaculation becomes a thing of the past.

There is a lot of stress put on men to perform well in bed, so when a problem arises such as premature ejaculation, it can be hard for a man to talk about it. Opening up about it can make a huge difference though. Few men would be comfortable talking to their buddies about any sexual problems, and sometimes they may not even want to talk to their partner. While it’s alright to feel some reserve when talking to others about any sexual concerns, a man should always feel comfortable talking to their doctor. They are trained professionals that will want to help you with your concerns and can provide you with advice.

You can make a special appointment to talk to your doctor about premature ejaculation any time, but also don’t hesitate to bring it up when you are in for your regular checkup or if you are there for some other health reason. Like I said before, these are trained professionals that are here to help you. They understand that a healthy sex life is a large factor in overall well being. It’s understandable to feel a little embarrassed when talking to your doctor about your sex life, but think about some of the other problems that patients are asking them everyday. In their eyes it’s not embarrassing at all, it’s just another day.

When you talk about premature ejaculation with your doctor, they will ask you a few generalized questions. Having this information ready for your visit will help the doctor provide better advice. Of course they will want to know the symptoms of PE that you are experiencing, like how often you ejaculate before you or your partner would like, how long you usually last, and if you’re experiencing any pain or other symptoms. They will also want to go over your sexual history, and whether or not this has always been a problem or a more recent development. They will want to see if there is some sort of pattern to your situation. They will also want to get a medical history to see if there is perhaps a medical reason for your premature ejaculation, such as an enlarged prostate or a prostate infection.

Talking to a doctor about your premature ejaculation can be the first step in overcoming premature ejaculation. Talking to a trained professional can help you feel at ease and help point you in the right direction. It would probably be a good idea to think of whatever questions you would like to ask your doctor before you go, since many of us tend to forget things once we get to where we are going.

Chances are there isn’t a medical problem that’s causing your premature ejaculation. Rarely is this the case for men. Because of this, there isn’t much a doctor can do but give some advice and encouragement. If this is the case, we highly recommend asking him about using an ejaculation control program like the Ejaculation Trainer. If you correctly explain what it entails, he will likely agree that it’s the best solution for a regular guy who doesn’t have any medical problems, but would just like to last longer and learn how to prevent premature ejaculation.

Unfortunately for many men, they feel there is no hope for them to resolve their premature ejaculation. The longer they go without finding a solution, the more stressed and overwhelmed they get with their situation. This stress leads to even more troubles in bed, becoming a vicious cycle. There are treatment and management options however that can drastically help men regain control of their sex lives again.

One of the easiest treatment methods are creams and condoms. Both of these immediately provide desensitization for the penis, theoretically allowing you to last longer. Condoms also give the added benefit of protecting against STD’s and unwanted pregnancies. However, both of these methods can also decrease the pleasure involved because they are desensitizing the penis. Both of these methods are a decent quick fix, but they don’t address the core problems of premature ejaculation. Any man who truly wants to increase his natural abilities and last longer all by himself without any aid needs a solution like the Ejaculation Trainer.

While not its original purpose, it has been found that certain anti-depressants, known as SSRI’s, have the effect of slowing down the nervous system and increasing serotonin, allowing a man to last longer. These drugs work to increase the serotonin in the body, which makes a person feel better, but also lessens arousal by calming the nervous system. One of the unfortunate side effects of premature ejaculation can be depression, so taking these medications can help with any signs of depression while aiding a man during intercourse. Before taking any sort of medication you should talk to a doctor. Again, taking pills really shouldn’t be a long-term solution to PE since it just masks the original problem.

Ejaculation control manuals are actually one of the most effective solutions for premature ejaculation. For many men, the main contributing factor for their premature ejaculation is that their early sexual experiences have wired their brain to ejaculate as quickly as possible. After years of this during their teenage life, it is how their body naturally reacts to sexual situations. That’s where ejaculation control manuals such as the Ejaculation Trainer come into play. They give a man the knowledge and techniques he needs to rewire their body to last longer, and also basic techniques and information that can be used to delay ejaculation. Many different topics and aspects of ejaculation are discussed. While this isn’t a quick fix like other treatment options (although the Ejaculation Trainer does in fact provide 18 quick fix techniques), it will provide men with lasting results that will not only end their suffering from premature ejaculation, but also end their dependence on outside measures for treatment.

Serotonin and How it Affects Ejaculation

On May 23, 2011, in Causes, by admin

During intercourse, there are a number of different hormones and other chemicals that are released. These chemicals can either help or hinder your ability to control your ejaculation. It seems that the most influential hormone is serotonin. In recent years there has been more and more research into the role that serotonin has on arousal and ejaculation. Various studies have shown that serotonin actually helps to inhibit orgasm. This is clearly beneficial news to those suffering from premature ejaculation.

Serotonin is a hormone that naturally occurs in the body. It’s produced in the central nervous system, as well as a few other areas, and is related to a range of positive feelings. It is often referred to as the “happiness hormone”. Increased levels of serotonin in animals have been shown to produce dominant behaviors in males as well as providing an overall calming effect. This calming effect is what makes it so beneficial to those suffering from premature ejaculation. There have been several studies showing that men who have low levels of serotonin are less able to control their arousal and ejaculation. The levels of serotonin in the body are directly related to the amount of emotions that are being experienced. The higher the emotions, the higher the levels of serotonin will be in the body as a way to calm the body down from the emotions that are being experienced. During any sort of sexual activity, there are a lot of emotions going on and serotonin is released to help cope with those emotions and keep the body under control. Men suffering from premature ejaculation may have lower levels of serotonin, so they feel these emotions more intensely. Having to deal with premature ejaculation brings out additional emotions that make it even harder to control if you have a serotonin deficiency.

There are several ways to deal with a low level of serotonin in the body. Some foods, as covered in the Ejaculation Trainer, can naturally increase the level of serotonin in the body. There has also been some research into the effect of medications called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors, more commonly known as SSRI’s, on premature ejaculation. While these drugs have been shown to have a positive effect on PE, medication should be a last resort for treatment since it doesn’t solve the actual problem. It’s just another way to temporarily mask the problem.

The Ejaculation Trainer has an entire section on how to control serotonin and the other hormones that cause premature ejaculation.

Premature Ejaculation and the PC Muscle

On May 16, 2011, in Causes, by admin

Most people have at least heard of Kegel’s, exercises for women designed to strengthen their vaginal muscles. Few realize however that there is also a version for men. The focus is on learning to control the PC muscle. This is the collective name given to a group of muscles that run from the anus to the base of the penis and around. Learning to control these muscles can be beneficial to any man, but particularly those suffering from premature ejaculation.

Most men have a difficult time at first learning how to contract and release their PC muscles. It is actually the same muscles that are used to stop urination. If a man stops his stream mid-urination, those are the PC muscles he just used. With practice, and by following a routine such as the one covered in the Ejaculation Trainer, a man will be able to develop a stronger PC muscle and have better control over it. It’s not recommended that you practice using your PC muscles on your own without the aid of some sort of manual. These aren’t muscles that are used very frequently and often times are weak, especially in those suffering from premature ejaculation. There is a good chance of injuring your body if you attempt to work with the PC muscles in an improper manner, which would make your problems even worse.

Probably the biggest misconception regarding the PC muscle and premature ejaculation is how it’s used. Over and over people say it’s to be used to ‘hold in’ ejaculation. While this may help if you’re about to go over the top, the main focus should be on how to keep it relaxed. Mastering relaxing the PC muscle can be very beneficial to men who suffer from premature ejaculation. During intercourse, most of a man’s body, including his PC muscle, is tense. This tension increases sensitivity, leading to higher states of arousal and the loss of ejaculation control. By relaxing these muscles during intercourse, the pressure is lessened and arousal goes down.

By learning to control your PC muscle, you will not only be able to last longer during intercourse, but you will more than likely be able to orgasm multiple times. Once the PC muscle is strong enough, it will actually be able to reduce the amount of semen that is released during orgasm by contracting the muscle as firmly as possible. This will keep you from climaxing completely and usually within a short period of time you will be ready to orgasm again. This can be helpful both in regular intercourse and in those situations where you find yourself climaxing before you would like. If you can reduce how much you release, you can keep your arousal level up so that you can continue on long enough to please your partner.

The Ejaculation Trainer covers absolutely everything about the PC muscle. It doesn’t just say to squeeze it like every other website or book. It focuses more on teaching you how to keep it relaxed, and therefore prevent the PC muscle contractions that lead to ejaculation and orgasm. This is critical knowledge that is only covered in the Ejaculation Trainer.

It may have never crossed your mind, but what you are eating can have an effect on how you are performing sexually. Think about it, sex is really just another form of exercise, albeit much more fun than running. Just like you wouldn’t expect to perform your best on the field if you haven’t been eating right, you can’t expect to perform the best you can in bed either. Just a few simple changes will not only help you last longer and perform better, but it will also help you in all aspects of your life.

You know what you have to do. You have to cut back on all those foods that you know are bad for you. Burgers, beer, candy, soda, it all leads to an unhealthy body and an unhealthy body can’t perform to its full potential in bed. These foods leave your body feeling sluggish, you will notice highs and lows as your blood sugar is on a roller coaster, and you will begin to get out of breath doing even simple things like going up a flight of stairs. If you can’t even make it to the bedroom without your heart racing, how do you expect to keep going for any length of time during sex? There have been amazing testimonials from men who have changed their diet and were surprised by the effects that it had on their sexual performance. Not only have these men become better at controlling their ejaculation during intercourse, but they also reported their erections being much firmer. Men were reporting being able to feel their pulse in their erection, something they never experienced before.

There are a number of ways to begin eating healthier. Doing some form of cleanse has become a popular option. Most people go with a colon cleanse. Cleanses rid your body of the toxins and junk that has built up in your body over years of eating fatty, unhealthy food. You have to go beyond a cleanse though, what you put in your body has to change too. A Mediterranean diet has the best guidelines to follow. Fruits and vegetables are the focus of the meals and meats are seen as a side dish. While you start to eat healthy, don’t forget to remember the importance of carbohydrates in your diet. There’s a reason that athletes load of up on carbs before a big game. While you don’t need to “carb up” each time before you have sex, keeping them in your diet and maybe having an extra piece of bread or two if you think you might be getting some a little later on might not be a bad idea. Most importantly, carbs release serotonin into the body, and serotonin plays a key role on when you ejaculate. Since serotonin is created by your body’s digestive system, poor eating habits can be a contributing factor when levels are low.

However you decide to do it, incorporating a healthier diet into your life is extremely important if you want to overcome your premature ejaculation. A healthier body is better able to keep up with the rigors of sex, and you will also just be able to control you erections and your arousal better. Not only that, becoming healthier will make you feel better about your body, and that confidence will translate into your sexual performance.

It may not seem like it so much, but diet really can have a direct effect on when you ejaculate. The Ejaculation Trainer ebook covers everything you need to know to gain permanent control over your ejaculation. It even discusses dieting and how it relates to premature ejaculation, including the foods to eat and the foods to avoid.

There are a lot of options out there when it comes premature ejaculation. When dealing with something like premature ejaculation, you certainly don’t want to waste time on a product that isn’t going to work. Out of all of the products on the market, the Ejaculation Trainer is by far one of the most popular ones out there.

A main contributing factor to the majority of cases of premature ejaculation is the brain being conditioned to ejaculate as quickly as possible. This conditioning remains intact as you get older, even though the need to speed isn’t around anymore. To fully handle the problem of premature ejaculation, a man will need to recondition his body to tolerate more sexual stimulation before ejaculation. This isn’t an overnight process, and will take some work and discipline on the man’s part. However it’s more than worth the effort, as a man can develop natural control that is completely permanent. That’s something that pills and creams can never do.

The Ejaculation Trainer stands out from other programs for premature ejaculation because it gets right to the point and addresses every single aspect of premature ejaculation. Other programs and books tend to go on about information that doesn’t address the root causes of premature ejaculation. The Ejaculation Trainer goes over every possible detail that men need to know. Readers are led through a series of mental, hormonal, and physical techniques & information that will work to recondition how the brain and body reacts to sexual stimulation. Over time men will gain control over their ejaculation and regain their confidence in bed.

Sometimes it can seem like finding help with premature ejaculation is a daunting task, there are so many options available. The key is to find something that’s proven to work. The Ejaculation Trainer has been on the market for some years now and has gotten a slew of stellar reviews from men who’ve experienced positive results. The Ejaculation Trainer covers the in and outs of lasting longer in bed, and no stone is left unturned. Everything that is needed to overcome premature ejaculation and naturally last longer in bed is covered in the Ejaculation Trainer. Simply put, there’s nothing else out there like the Ejaculation Trainer.

It’s easy to understand why problems with sexual performance could make any man stressed. There is a lot of pressure and desire to perform, and when performance starts to falter, a man can begin to worry. It’s especially frustrating when you can’t understand why it’s happening, you begin to feel like a victim. Stress about whether or not you are going to be able to perform can clearly have an effect in the bedroom. It can quickly become a vicious cycle of worrying about if you are going to be able to perform, this worry will make it harder for you to control your arousal, again leading to disappointing results, and increasing your stress even more. Many men get so overwhelmed with their fear of being unable to control their arousal that they will begin to avoid sexual situations.

Stress about premature ejaculation can also start to take a toll on your life outside the bedroom too. When you aren’t able to perform sexually, your self esteem can take a major hit. This can quickly lead to the beginnings of depression, which can further lead to insomnia, irritability, and even more stress. Your work may also begin to suffer. You may start to lose relationships with friends and family. Men may not only isolate themselves sexually, but they may actually begin to cut themselves off from all social situations.

There are several ways to reduce your stress, and therefore regain control during intercourse. The first and easiest is to practice some simple breathing techniques. During sex or masturbation, take a few deep breaths and focus just on your breathing. This will settle your mind again and you will be able to continue on. This will also have the same effect in your everyday life, take a few deep breaths and you will be amazed at the effect.

While it may take a little bit of work to regain long lasting control over your ejaculation, you will be able to see almost immediate results in and out of bed if you take the time to focus on relaxation. I know to some it may seem girly or too touchy-feely, but just try it, and there will be nothing wimpy about the results that you will see in bed.

If you’re interested in learning complete ejaculation control so that you don’t have to stress over bedroom problems anymore, I highly recommend the Ejaculation Trainer. Quite frankly this is the best solution available for premature ejaculation, even if it’s related to stress. The results are permanent, natural, and you will begin lasting longer the same day you use it.